Love is not perfect. People say that love is perfect and that the lovers are the ones who are not. However, love, in itself, is not perfect either. I believe the only perfect thing ever is the creator. Anyway, it does not really matter if love is perfect or not. After all, the most beautiful things in this life are those that have their imperfections. I mean, what kind of boring shit this life would be if everything was just…
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On Darker Waters
Sometimes, you have to distance yourself from the things you love and the things that hurt you. This is not because you are giving up. In fact, this is because you want to hold on to it longer. When you are hurt, it is okay to need some time on your own. You need to find that place in your heart where everything is peaceful. You need to forget what hurts and move on. You need to come back on…
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Saying it Out Loud
When you love someone, you should tell them. Not because you want them to love you back. Not because you want to make a fool of yourself. Not because you have a right to say so. Not because you know you can stand by your word. Love, in itself, should be said as often as you can. Whether it’s fleeting and momentary or whether its the kind that scars you for life, it should always be said. Whether it’s romantic,…
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Choices
People ask me why we aren’t married yet. Five years of being together, officially or not, was a lot of time for two people to decide on marriage. It was puzzling why he and I never got arround to doing that. People simply did not understand. I could simply say we had reasons, reasons which were our own. I could say we weren;t married yet because we had many other plans of our own. Because, individually, we haven’t yet achieved…
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No Other Woman – Not a Review at All
I was with my mom when I watched this movie. I have to admit, I watched it because Anne Curtis is my mom’s favorite. She watches Showtime everyday (I swear). Watching this movie was not even a question. I have read so many reviews and comments about No Other Woman. Most of them had biases (no matter how objective they say they are). Some of them just wanted to write or blog about it, not really caring if the content…
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And Then There Was Me
and then there was me… and i was laughing my whole heart out that you were someone i couldn’t do without and i didn’t know that it was true and that my whole life would be blue and i thought i could get away with things that i could fight these confusing feelings and i didn’t think i’d never be the same i thought i was the one playing the game and now there is only me, myself and i…
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The Fight That Brought Peace
People who are married, are in a relationship or have been in previous romantic experiences know that fighting is inevitable. As much as we want to avoid getting into a fight with our partners, Fate seems to laugh at the effort and throws random fights along your way. It always starts with a petty disagreement that even sic-year old kids wouldn’t be caught fighting about. Then it morphs into a full blown declaration of war where two people emotionally or…
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Retro
I was going through my old blog at http://ishathebeautiful.multiply.com when I found one blog that I particularly like. Actually, there’s more of these blog entries that I always like reading over and over. It’s just that this one surprised me. It was written March 11, 2007. That was the time when me and LOVE weren’t really in good terms (in other words, I was in everywhere else but LOVE). I am surprised at how far I’ve come from the time…
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Paint Your Palette
I want to thank Jingle because she has given me this award to decorate my blog even more…. She is indeed a very good friend and a gem to have. I am posting this poem today. I wrote this about a week ago. I know this should have been posted right away, but I wanted to wait until I did not have any personal issues anymore. Today just seems to be the perfect time to post this. I hope this…
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The Sun (A Sonnet)
My heart throbs as it never had before, Ever since you waled right out of the door. There’s this huge gaping hole inside my heart, Ever since you tore both of us apart. And all the days that I shall face alone, I’ll live these days with a heart turned to stone. My soul’s restless searching for only you; After you, my dreams have never come true. My mind is traveling a lonely space, So much to wander but no…