The Heart of the Matter by India Arie "It's about forgiveness…" This is absolutely the best phrase in the entire song. Basically, the song is about a woman who got a phone call from her friend telling her that her ex-lover has already found a new love. My favorite line actually has a universal truth in it. Breakups are always about forgiveness, even when there's no love anymore. Forgiveness for the hurt we cause each other. Forgiveness for the wrongs…